Couples coaching with me is highly individualised, in that no two partnerships are the same, and so we begin exactly where you are, clarify where you want to go (your goals), and work together from there.

My work blends coaching and mentorship, combining open dialogue, somatic practice, exploratory processes to help you uncover and shift deeper patterns.

Throughout our time together, we’ll be working on establishing the core relational skills that all thriving partnerships require.

Additionally, in. away that works with you both and your schedules, you’ll also receive exercises and practices between sessions to take what we do in our sessions into your daily life.

I bring over a decade of lived relational work, five years of coaching experience, and professional training in Love, Sex & Relationship Coaching, as well as a specialism in Relationship Transformation Coaching to our space.

I also have a background in women’s health and masculine/feminine dynamics, that brings a significant edge to the work I do with couples.

My clients describe me as warm, present, deeply intuitive, and wildly human.

Co-Creating Union is a blend of coaching and mentorship, not therapy.

Think of it like sitting down with a trusted guide who knows the work of partnership deeply, cares about your growth as a couple, and brings perspective, tools, and insight you haven’t discovered yet.

A good way to think of it is where therapy is reactive, coaching is proactive - it’s clear, focused, intentional work towards building the kind of partnership you want to have.

Our sessions are warm, tender, and non-judgmental, creating a space where both of you can be seen, heard, and understood.

And as a married woman, I’ve likely felt every emotion you’re navigating as a couple, AND my husband and I have worked with a couples coach ourselves, so I really understand the multitude of things that came come up in the ‘other chair’ - I do truly get it.

So rest assured, you’ll be met with empathy, understanding, and practical guidance every step of the way.

Of course there is - and you are not alone in that.

I remember when my husband and I were going into our first couples coaching session years ago (before we were married), I was terrified. I loved him so much and I really wanted us to deepen and grow together in that way, but I had a lot of stuff to work through, and it was really scary.

And I’ll be totally honest with you: it wasn’t always comfortable.

Facing yourself, your patterns, and the dynamics between you can feel SO confronting.

But it is also one of the most transformative and empowering things you can do - both individually and as a couple.

Not only did we deepen and grow together, but we actually got engaged during couples coaching!

Obviously I can’t promise that as an outcome ;) but just to highlight that something that feels so scary going in, can be the path to the relationship and life you once dreamed of.

In Co-Creating Union, you will be met with so much grace, safety, and support, while also being gently invited to face what’s necessary in order to achieve the (lasting) transformation you’re seeking.

You don’t have to do this alone - this is deep work meant to be navigated alongside a mentor who has walked the path, and it would be my honour to be that person for you.

It is — and that’s because this is foundational, life-changing work for your partnership.

Co-Creating Union isn’t about quick fixes; it’s about creating deep, lasting transformation in how you relate, communicate, and grow together, and establishing a solid foundation for the rest of your life together.

It’s also a highly-personalised journey where my full focus, presence, and support are devoted to both of you.

The investment reflects that commitment, as well as the profound transformation available for your relationship.

It’s completely normal for one partner to feel more ready or enthusiastic about coaching than the other - especially at the beginning.

Often, one partner is the initiator (likely you, if you’re reading this!), while the other may feel unsure, have questions, or even experience some resistance.

This doesn’t mean they aren’t interested in doing the work together, it could just be discomfort with sharing intimate details with a third party, fear of being blamed or judged, or even the understandable anxiety that comes with real change (I had a lot of this!).

That’s exactly why the application process involves a free Alignment Call.

It’s a safe, neutral space for both of you to meet me, explore your goals and hesitations, and gain clarity about whether coaching is right for your relationship.

There’s no pressure and no judgment - just guidance and support to help you both decide together.

If your partner is willing to explore this even a little, that’s already a powerful first step - and I’d encourage to to submit an application (this lets me understand your circumstances before we talk), and I’ll be in touch to schedule a call with you.

And, if your partner isn’t ready yet, I also offer 1:1 support for women in relationships who want to transform their relational patterns and create meaningful change from their side.

A lot can shift just from your own willingness to do the work — learn more about working with me 1:1 in Preparation For Union.

I coach clients all over the world via Zoom, and have so far been able to make it work with clients spanning the globe from the US - Europe - Middle East - Australia!

My typical coaching hours are:
Tuesdays, Wednesdays & Thursdays between 11am & 6pm CET (Amsterdam time).

If these slots are unworkable for you, but you would otherwise be committed to working with me, feel free to send me a DM or email with your location and availability. I do have a very limited number of evening slots available, and may be able to accommodate you.

Co-Creating Union is by application only, so we can ensure it’s the right fit for your relationship and your current season.

Once I review your application, I’ll reach out to schedule an Alignment Call — a space for us to meet, explore your goals as a couple, answer any questions you may have, and if aligned, get you enrolled so you can starting co-creating your union.

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