A 5-month relationship journey for committed couples ready to co-create a solid foundation for the vision they hold for their life, love and legacy.
Co-Creating Union
Imagine… you and your partner have just had one of the most connected conversations you've shared in months.
You didn’t spiral, he didn’t shut down, and it was actually productive.
You both felt seen, heard, and safe as you navigated it.
You feel closer for it. Way closer.
And you realise this is the norm for you now.
Every moment of disconnection can be transformed into even deeper connection.
Every difficult conversation is an opportunity to love each other deeper.
You’re navigating conflict like pros.
He’s honouring your big feelings, which makes you feel held.
You’re honouring his need for freedom, which only brings him closer.
There’s laughter. Play. Passion. Fun. Intimacy.
You're on the same team — you’re in this together.
You feel so much more capable of everything.
And the life you are co-creating is everything you dreamed of.
You’re not just in a relationship anymore…
This is Union.
Co-Creating Union
is for you if —
You both value growth, and you don’t just want an average relationship, but want to create something extraordinary.
You deeply love each other and want to prepare for the next chapter intentionally — whether that’s engagement, marriage or starting a family.
You still struggle with things like communication breakdowns, repetitive conflicts, and intimacy misalignment, and you want to learn how to master these areas.
One or both of you often feels unseen, unheard, or unmet, and you want to change that — for yourself and your partner.
You want to feel like a total team in your relationship and lives — to have that best friends meets epic lovers meets #1 supporters energy.
Your relationship has the power to be the most transformative container of your life.
Let’s co-create that.
“Amber is a brilliant coach. She will hold you through the most tender and deep moments while also celebrate and help elevate your relationship to new heights. We are so grateful for this journey to completely transform our relationship from a time of rupture to a place where we feel more in love than ever before. Thank you! We are so grateful for this experience! It’s helped us so much!”
— Gina + Anthony
After Co-Creating Union…
You’ll feel more clear + aligned in your vision, roles, and desires for the future — and more capable of co-creating the life you envision together.
You’ll feel deep emotional safety in your relationship — you’re able to connect with, feel, share and express freely with your partner.
You’ll have tools to communicate with clarity and emotional maturity, even - especially - the hard things.
You’ll more deeply understand your own + your partner’s patterns, and be able to meet one another more authentically and compassionately.
You’ll experience more emotional and physical intimacy, and a revived spark between you.
You’ll be able to navigate conflict and repair with self-responsibility, self- and co-regulation, and as a team.
You’ll move from being in a relationship, to being in a union that is conscious, connected, committed, and built to hold the life, love + legacy you want to create together.
This is how safe, intimate, and alive your love gets to be when you're willing to do the work together.
“We would not be still together and in each other’s lives if it hadn’t been for this coaching container. It has improved our relationship and ways we relate to each other in every way - our communication, our understanding of each other, our sex life. Not only that but I also feel we have grown a lot as individuals through this process.”
— Cat + Rich
Co-Creating Union
is a 5-month couples coaching container for committed partners who are ready to transform the way they communicate, connect, and co-create their life — so they can build a secure, intimate, and conscious union that’s truly built to last.
Here’s what you get —
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This is where you begin to transform the way you relate - to yourself, to each other, and to the union you’re co-creating.
Each session is a blend of somatic coaching, relational guidance, and intuitive mentoring. We’ll explore the full landscape of your partnership - from your desires, fears, and communication styles, to the relational patterns, emotional triggers, and inner wounds that are currently shaping your dynamic & you’d like to transform.
You’ll leave each session with fresh insights, practical tools, and a renewed sense of connection (with yourself, your partner, and your shared vision).
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While the insights and breakthroughs happen in your sessions, the true transformation takes place in the space between - in how you speak to each other, meet one another, navigate the difficult moments and conversations, and show up in your partnership in your daily life.
At the end of each session, you’ll receive personalised practices to support your integration as a couple - from self reflection prompts and communication rituals, to connection & intimacy practices and co-regulation exercises. These practices are co-created, so they feel aligned with the relationship you're consciously creating.
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You’ll have access to me via Telegram (Monday–Friday) for check-ins, voice notes, and real-time support with whatever’s coming up in your relationship - whether you're moving through a trigger, navigating a difficult conversation, feeling emotionally disconnected or unmet, celebrating a breakthrough, want to appreciate something in your partner, or simply need guidance to apply and embody what we explored in our session.
This additional feature offers consistent support for the real-life moments as they happen, and helps to deepen your integration and ensure lasting change.
“Amber created a beautiful and supportive space for us to deepen our commitment after engagement and as we took our first steps towards marriage. Through our work together, we identified key patterns in our dynamic, met them with love, and committed to more embodied and connective ways of being. Amber brings both deep wisdom and a joyful presence, making our sessions feel like time spent with a knowledgeable and caring friend - while also providing a clear structure that led to meaningful insights. We definitely recommend her to any couple, whether navigating challenges or simply wanting to cultivate a more thriving connection.”
— Allison + Justin
INVESTMENT
PAY IN FULL
€2250
2 PART PAY
€1150 x 2
3 PART PAY
€777 x 3
MEET YOUR COACH —
Hi, I'm Amber Rose!
I'm a woman, a wife, and a Relationship Transformation Coach for growth-focused women + couples who want to create deeply intentional lives & partnerships, that are safe, connected, intimate, expansive, and a container for their personal and relational evolution.
When my husband Ricardo and I first met, I knew that I had met my match. We were both self-aware, growth-focused entrepreneurs with big visions for our lives, and from day one, we were in it with intention.
But that didn't mean it was easy… We came from different cultures, different upbringings, and different lifestyles... and in just our first 1.5 years together, I moved countries, we bought a house, we moved through a pregnancy & miscarriage, and we had to navigate so much individually and relationally.
My training & experience in relationship coaching, as well as the work we were doing as individuals, helped us tremendously, but we knew if we wanted to take our relationship to the next level, we were going to need to work on it together — so we got a Couples Coach, and we showed up and did the work.
Our relationship got deeper, safer, more intimate, more fun, more powerful.
We became more of a team than ever before.
We witnessed and supported one another in deep healing, which helped us understand one another more, connect more deeply, and truly meet one another.
We learnt how to actually communicate. How to navigate triggers, conflict and ruptures, and how to repair and ‘get back in the same room’.
We got engaged halfway through the journey, and 6 months later we got married (eloped in Vegas/Zion actually!), and now we’re actively co-creating the vision we hold for our life together, while moving through a deeply intentional pre-conception journey. It’s everything I ever dreamed of.
Co-Creating Union is about building the kind of partnership that can hold everything you are and can be - a truly solid foundation for the life + future you desire to share. It’s about creating something extraordinary - and getting to experience what’s truly possible in relationship when you do this work together.
“Amber is the breath of fresh perspective I think we all are hoping for in a coach. Someone to simply see what you’re too close to see, and then gently guide you back home to truth, alignment, love, and intimacy; with your partner, with yourself. Her ability to create a safe, compassionate space is unmatched, in my experience, as well as her passion-fueled skill. Amber’s work is deeply impactful, and I highly recommend for anyone feeling “stuck” in the realm of relating.”
— Emilia + Peter
MY CLIENTS SAY I AM:
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Safe, Loving Place
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Miracle Worker
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Fully Present
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Inspirational
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Powerful
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Radiant Force
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Grounded
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Intuitive
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Gifted
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Compassionate
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Transformational • Safe, Loving Place • Miracle Worker • Fully Present • Inspirational • Powerful • Radiant Force • Grounded • Intuitive • Gifted • Compassionate • Real •
✺ Frequently asked questions ✺
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Couples coaching with me is highly individualised, in that no two partnerships are the same, and your journey will be rooted in the reality of your relationship.
While there’s a loose structure and shared themes we often explore — communication, emotional safety, intimacy, triggers, polarity, and individual and shared vision — your experience will be shaped by where you are now, and where you want to go as a couple.
My work is a blend of coaching and mentorship, rooted in both lived experience and extensive professional training.
Sessions combine open dialogue, somatic practices, and exploratory processes to help you uncover deeper patterns, shift your dynamic, and integrate lasting change.I’ll support you in building the core skills that all thriving partnerships require: Self and partner-awareness, clarity, connection, communication, co-regulation, emotional maturity, self-ownership/responsibility, and intimacy.
You’ll also receive tools and practices between sessions to take what we do in our sessions into your daily life.
I bring over a decade of lived relational work, five years of coaching experience, and professional training in Love, Sex & Relationship Coaching, as well as a major in Relationship Transformation Coaching to our space.
My clients describe me as warm, present, deeply intuitive, and wildly human.
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Co-Creating Union is about transforming the way you relate - to yourself, to each other, and to the partnership you're building (we work on you as an individual, your partner as an individual, and the relationship as a 3rd entity).
Couples often start off feeling:
Stuck in communication loops where they’re not really hearing or understanding each other
Triggered, emotionally overwhelmed, or disconnected, and unsure how to repair after conflict
Like they’re on different pages or ‘in different rooms’, with different needs, desires, or ways of expressing love - and they don’t know how to communicate that or change it
Longing for more closeness, emotional safety, intimacy, and ease in the relationship, as well as a common desire for more freedom.
Often feeling quite confused or even ashamed, because they love each other so much, but are still struggling in these ways.
Through our work together, you can expect to experience:
More emotional safety and stability - both within themselves and with one another/in the relationship
Feeling more seen, heard, understood and accepted by their parners
Better able to self-regulate, and co-regulate - to hold space for each other, and navigate challenges with more emotional maturity and responsibility
More clarity and confidence in communication,even around hard things
Greater self-awareness and partner-awareness - understanding what’s yours, what’s theirs, and able to meet one another
Real, tangible change in the relationship - better communication, more intimacy, more play, more connection
Feeling more ready and prepared for big life moves - like moving in together, getting married, or starting a family
And the piece I love the most… A renewed sense of us, of “we’re a team” - a really solid togetherness, that makes anything feel possible.
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It’s completely normal for one partner to feel more ready or ‘into’ coaching than the other, especially at the beginning.
Often, one of you is the initiator (likely you, if you're reading this - you may have noticed this whole page is written to you as one person - and usually it’s the woman in the relationship that will initiate something like this (to any gents reading this, I’m happy for you to challenge me!) - and the other might feel unsure, have more questions, or even have some resistance coming up.
That doesn’t necessarily mean they aren’t interested in doing the work together - it could just mean they’re unsure of what coaching actually looks like, uncomfortable about revealing personal/intimate details with a 3rd person, or afraid of being blamed or even judged for something.
Another really common fear is of things actually changing - which might seem a bit contradictory because the point of coaching is positive change, however it can be really scary even when we want it!
This is all part of the reason why I offer a free connection call. It’s a chance for both of you to meet me in a safe and neutral space - I won’t be pushing, pressuring, taking sides, or judging either of you or your relationship. You and your partner will get the chance to gain more clarity and understanding, discuss your fears or hesitations, and make an informed decision about moving forward.
If your partner is open to even exploring this together, that’s a powerful first step.
And if your partner really isn’t willing to come to the table right now, I also offer 1:1 support for women in relationships who want to transform their relational patterns and create change from their side. A lot can shift just from you doing the work! Look at Radiant Woman to learn more.
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The first step is to book a free 30-minute connection call, where we’ll meet face to face (virtually), get to know each other, and explore your desires, challenges, and goals, as well as any fears of hesitations you may have.
When you book, you’ll be prompted to answer a few short questions — this helps me understand where you currently are in your relationship and what kind of support you’re seeking, so we can make the most of our time together.
And if you’d prefer to chat a bit first, you’re always welcome to DM me on Instagram to ask any questions or feel into whether this journey is right for you.
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After 5 years of coaching women and couples, I’ve learnt that having a set container for couples of at least 5 months within which to do the work, significantly deepens the results my clients get.
I work with my couples on a 3 on/1 off schedule, meaning we meet for the first 3 weeks of each month, and then take a week break (no coaching that week).
This allows for integration and rest, and just taking a break from ‘doing the work’ which is a really important part of the journey.
While transformation can occur quickly and my clients tend to experience breakthroughs in almost every session, true integration and sustained change - especially in relationships - takes time.
Additionally, our relationship patterns are often deeply rooted in the nervous system, which is best met and tended to with gentleness and consistency (aka not rushing or forcing it, or expecting a moment of clarity to equate to meaningful change).
After your initial 5-month coaching journey in Co-Creating Union, you’ll also have the opportunity to continue in On-Going Private Mentorship, offering continued support on a monthly basis. -
I coach clients all over the world via Zoom — so as long as our time zones align, we can absolutely work together!
My typical coaching hours are:
Tuesdays, Wednesdays & Thursdays between 11am & 6pm CET (Amsterdam time).If these slots are completely unworkable for you, but you would otherwise be committed to working with me, feel free to send me a DM or email with your location and availability. I do have a very limited number of evening slots available, and may be able to accommodate you.
Still not sure…?
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What would it mean for you for this to 'work for you'? How would you define or measure that?
The reality is that we aren’t born knowing how to do relationships well.
We weren't taught how to have healthy, connected, conscious, emotionally-safe, high-functioning partnerships.
We weren’t taught how to communicate, how to regulate our nervous systems, how to hold conflict, or how to feel deeply connected in love and sex.
And we certainly aren't modelled these things by modern society.
Most people are on autopilot operating from subconscious patterns, survival strategies, and inner wounds that no one taught them how to name or understand, let alone shift.
And the result is that most couples are still operating far below what is actually possible or available for them in the realm of relationship.
Co-Creating Union is deep, personalised support - from someone who has lived it AND studied it - designed to help you shift the patterns that are keeping you stuck where you currently are in your relationship, and give you the tools, support, and safe space to create something new and co-create the partnership you are capable of having.
If you are willing to show up, be honest, take responsibility for your part, and do the work together… then real, embodied, lasting growth and transformation is available to you.
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And you’re not alone in that! I’ve had so many new-to-coaching clients showing up with no idea of what to expect, and feeling nervous about the process.
My favourite way to think about coaching is that you’re sitting down with a really good friend, who knows you so well and cares so deeply about your happiness and fulfilment, and who also knows a bunch of stuff you don’t know (yet) and can offer some epic advice and guidance.
Coaching with me is warm, tender, and non-judgmental (seriously).
And remember that I’m a human too! And I’ve very likely felt every emotion you’re feeling right now.
This is why booking in a connection call is the first step - so we can ‘meet’ each other (virtually) and get comfortable with one another before we start working together.
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This is one of the most valid and common fears couples bring into this work, and it’s something I moved through myself when my now-husband and I were about to start Couple’s Coaching.
I was so afraid that all of the stuff beneath the surface (the stuff we ALL have, like unspoken resentments, past hurts, unmet needs, unhealed wounds) would come up and confront us.
And I won’t lie - it did, and it wasn’t easy or comfortable at times.
AND - it was one of the most liberating and empowering experiences I’ve ever had, and it did wonders for our relationship because it got us in the same room and allowed us to actually meet one another and work together to create what we wanted to experience.
And my couple clients have echoed this - that it’s not comfortable, but it is worth it.
We will take everything step by step, moving at the pace of your most vulnerable parts, and always with a LOT of care, compassion, and within a non-judgemental space.
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And it is! Co-Creating Union is a highly-personalised journey where my full focus, presence, and support are devoted to the two of you and your relationship. The cost reflects that, my training and expertise, and the depth of transformation that becomes available when two people commit to doing this work together.
But so is your relationship, and so is the future that you are building together.
An ‘investment’ literally means ‘the act of putting money, time or effort into something for a profit or advantage’.
You will be choosing to do all 3 if you say yes to this journey, and I invite you to consider what your profit or advantage would be as a result?
What would it be worth to experience consistent emotional safety, deep connection, and powerful intimacy?
To stop looping in the same old patterns, and become masters at navigating conflict and rupture?
To communicate with clarity, self-ownership and maturity, even in the hard moments?
To feel like you’re fully on the same team, co-creating the kind of partnership that can hold your future, your dreams, your future family, your legacy?
Only you can answer these questions and decide if this investment is worth it to you.
